Can only one person satisfy ones every need? There’s compromises in a relationship. Should needs be suppressed? Assumed that they are within reason ofc. One should adjust the choice of partner after needs. Which isn’t easy in the state of “in love” and a reason to why relationships end. So you’ve found someone that the best fits your criteria, should a couple of “selfish” needs be of such importance to one self? Needs are needs and within reason they qualify for recognition.
PS I’m really mad about those that gets into a relationship where they only expect the person that they are with to change, with no regard of who the other person is. They should have picked someone more compatible instead. (Yes, I’ve been the one that’s had to do the adjusting and not being met up on any level).
So if you’ve spoken with your partner about your needs so much and yet your partner continues to not give them recognition? Ones lifestyle is of importance here, is the person working much, what time is left? Depending on what your need is, see to the availability to have your needs fulfilled. If after a time of two years your needs have grown stronger and are very rarely sed to, what do one do? That, is an answer I don’t have. I am seeking it myself.
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