Fire.

I check the newspapers website daily and was doing so now before I thought I’d go sleep, and noticed it. My honey wasn’t joking, there really was fire on his roof. That’s his house alright.

Source.

This is my partner by the way, if I haven’t pasted any photos of him before.

My mother sais I got a problem with getting peoples entire head into the photographs. I think she’s right

Friendship & Life.

A fortune cookie I once opened read: Small confidences marks the initiation of a new friendship. That’s something good to keep in mind in life. As so many things are. Another good quote is: Life isn’t about finding yourself. It’s about inventing yourself.

Infected.

Thank you all for the 6000+ hits.

Great, I think I am sick. What low life infected me? Boo called earlier this evening and said that his roof was on fire. I haven’t heard anything from him since then. I keep coughing. Last time I got sick it set off an astma attack which led me to the hospital for help to breath. Coughing is gonna keep me from sleeping tonight, I presume. And that is really gonna get on my nerves.

Note to self: Wednessday at 10pm National Geographic.

Should needs be suppressed?

Can only one person satisfy ones every need? There’s compromises in a relationship. Should needs be suppressed? Assumed that they are within reason ofc. One should adjust the choice of partner after needs. Which isn’t easy in the state of “in love” and a reason to why relationships end. So you’ve found someone that the best fits your criteria, should a couple of “selfish” needs be of such importance to one self? Needs are needs and within reason they qualify for recognition.

PS I’m really mad about those that gets into a relationship where they only expect the person that they are with to change, with no regard of who the other person is. They should have picked someone more compatible instead. (Yes, I’ve been the one that’s had to do the adjusting and not being met up on any level).

So if you’ve spoken with your partner about your needs so much and yet your partner continues to not give them recognition? Ones lifestyle is of importance here, is the person working much, what time is left? Depending on what your need is, see to the availability to have your needs fulfilled. If after a time of two years your needs have grown stronger and are very rarely sed to, what do one do? That, is an answer I don’t have. I am seeking it myself.

Asos.com Wishlist.

Seksy By Sekonda Thong Strap Watch – White

Barry M Shimmering Eye & Lip Crayon – Marshmallow / 2g

Liparazzi Just My Luck Limited Edition Light Up Lipgloss – Premiere / 14ml

Too Faced Lip Injection Extreme (+) – Frosted / 6g

www.asos.com/Women/1000/default.aspx

Accessories for the nutty dog owner.

(I don’t think these things are too nutty. I think they’re quite cute.)

Dog accessories.

I want one of those. Looks much tidier and cleaner than a regular dogs bed. At the same time it has the function of a transporter, two in one. Less mess. One can also hide all the dogs toys in when having people over, don’t need yet another thing: a basket for the toys.

I need one of these for trips to the vet.

Also a good choice for a dog owner. Load it with ice on hot summer days, for cold water longer.

A photo I found, I like it.

Fright and mittens.

I think I get frightened too easily, more than most. But the fright stayes within me, I don’t act out.

Got this thought today when something loud flew way too close over the roof and made the windows shake. I did honestly listen for a crash after that. There was none which led me to believe it was just a helicopter in pursuit of a criminal. I wonder what it was, people on the streets was getting loud as well.

But I definitely have issues.

I am so cold. I could use mittens while sitting here. Where did the heat go? I think they’ve turned of the radiators again. Thinking of mittens, honey always lets me borrow his when my hands are cold. He’s so cute! Women fall in love all over again from things like that.

Dead end.

To be real, I believe I drive every new person I meet off. I think I am that much different in behaviour than most and what they expect and/or are use to. Not saying that I act real freaky or odd, I just think I speak a different language. They don’t get the reaction from me that they are use to. I think I’m different because I have other priorities, so ofc my way of life (thinking) is what I present into my way of being. I think that they think that I’m weird, because I don’t fall under the category “normal”. Thinking further.. it’s not that I’m abrupt or cold but I don’t respond to that simple thing of small teasing with a giggle and a joke back as many expect cause I just don’t find that to be something I am interested in. Perhaps by not responding in that way they think of me as boring. But as I wrote, I just have other priorities. Guess it’s easy to say that I’m not an easy flirt, from somes points of views. I do not wish to change, I want to be who I am, I am comfortable this way. But I don’t want to drive 97% of strangers away either. Dead end perhaps.

Lucid dreaming

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Lucid dreams occur during REM sleep after the person becomes conscious and aware of dreaming within the dream.

Lucid dreaming is the conscious perception of one’s state while dreaming, resulting in a much clearer (“lucid”) experience and sometimes enabling direct control over the content of the dream. The complete experience from start to finish is called a lucid dream. Stephen LaBerge, a popular author and experimenter on the subject, has defined it as “dreaming while knowing that you are dreaming.”

LaBerge and his associates have called people who purposely explore the possibilities of lucid dreaming oneironauts (literally from the Greek ονειροναύτες, meaning “dream sailors”). The topic attracts the attention of a diverse and eclectic group: psychologists, self-help authors, New Age groups, mystics, occultists, ufologists and artists. This list is by no means exhaustive nor does interest in lucid dreaming apply necessarily to each group.

Lucid dreamers regularly describe their dreams as exciting, colourful, and fantastic. Many compare it to a spiritual experience and say that it changed their lives or their perception of the world. Some have even reported lucid dreams that take on a hyperreality, seemingly “more real than real”, where all the elements of reality are amplified. Lucid dreams are prodigiously more memorable than other kinds of dreaming, even nightmares, which may be why they are often prescribed as a means of ridding one’s self of troubling dreams.

The validity of lucid dreaming as a scientifically verified phenomenon is well-established. It may be classified as a protoscience, pending an increase in scientific knowledge about the subject. Researchers such as Allan Hobson with his neurophysiological approach to dreaming have helped to push the understanding of lucid dreaming into a less speculative realm.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lucid_dreaming