Porn

I would think that most of the men that uses the Internet more than anything else use it for the porn. Doesn’t men every tire? Don’t they feel “there is just too much sex now” and feel the need of more Love than Sex. I used Technorati and searched with the word “sex”, these are some of the results that came up.

“Dirty whore stuffs her fingers in her pussy …”
“A thick cock is stuck between blondes pair of…”
“Ts andreia gets nasty with veggies”

To me that is too nasty. It’s too much. It is too filthy. Which makes it disgusting and disturbing to me. I suppose there’s two types of men. Those who got their computer filled with downloaded porn and even burns it to a CD. And those that ISN’T addicted to porn and takes what the ladies are willing to give him. I guess men with good game gets less easy addicted to porn?

When I’m attracted to someone, I mean more than a sexual attraction. When I feel there is a possibility to a relationship with someone I find out quickly what that man is about and if he has qualities which I can’t handle/won’t handle any desire I might have had for him is gone. It is easy to spot the porn addicted or even qualities I don’t like for me. Without them having to say a word, I just see it on them. I won’t explain it, I’m not sure I can’t, I just wanted to write that I wouldn’t want a person that is all into Internet porn and that .. “I know”, how odd/fake/weird that may seem. But I’m REALLY glad I have that sence of people, or what ever it is. It saves many heart aches, and more.

So, do men who search for “Hoe doing veggies” ever tire of sex and just simply want love? So if you found this post by searching similar words.. fill me in?

It is weird that only a hoe can do for some men. I like a man that a lady can do for. A man that is turned on by what a lady gives. To be honest, I wouldn’t even want a male friend who functions in that way. I do choose my male friends carefully.

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9 Responses to “Porn”


  1. 1 A lurker from the shadows September 30, 2006 at 12:33 am

    I did not find this post looking for “Hoe doing veggies.” Sorry to disappoint you, lol. That’s a new one to me.

    Okay, let me try to explain this: men do not have the options that women have when it comes to sex. If a woman wants sex, she just has to go to the bar, or even just walk around in tight clothing, and someone will hit on her and take her home. I imagine that, being a woman, you would probably just take that for granted. Sex is always there, whenever you need it.

    Oh, sure, you can say you want love, cuddling, a relationship, but when you really only just want sex…it’s there, while you’re waiting. Easy as going to the store for groceries.

    For a guy, there’s just not that option. As difficult as it might be for a woman to grasp, for a man, sex can be difficult or even impossible to obtain. Girls can be very aloof and cruel, and it’s up to the guy to approach the girl. And no matter what the guy says, the girl’s guard is going to be up, because there are a small but vocal number of assholes who hit on anything with two legs. So even if you’re a nice guy, the onus is on you to prove it. And if you’re shy, you might as well go home. Girls, as a general rule, aren’t interested in shy guys. If you don’t have some confidence, or can’t at least fake some confidence, most women will shoot you down. Hard.

    So essentially, for a man, it’s a numbers game. Go up to 100 women, and maybe one will be interested. For some men, this percentage is much better, because they learn and study female psychology, and know just what to say to the girl to get her guard down. These guys are often assholes who just want to use girls and then throw them out afterwards. That’s why you get so many girls who think all guys are assholes, when really it’s only the ones who have the confidence to approach them that are often assholes.

    So what does this have to do with veggie porn? Well, let’s ignore the ‘veggie’ part for now. Porn is essentially the next best thing to sex. It’s non-judgmental. It’s safe – no diseases, no unwanted pregnancies. And finally, no one gets hurt. There are no misunderstandings, no jealousy, no mind games. No commitment issues, no demands on your time. Nada. It’s just porn, and it doesn’t pretend to be anything else.

    Is it better than a relationship? Of course not, and I doubt you’ll find many men who will say so. But some men do not have much luck with women, mainly because they lack confidence. So they resort to porn.

    I don’t really see the problem with porn. The guys who get women are still getting women. Maybe they look at porn, maybe they don’t, but it doesn’t really make any difference.

    But what about those guys you speak of, the ones who have only porn in their lives and no relationships? In the past, they would have had nothing. Now, guys who never had a chance in hell of getting a date at least get to fantasize. Would you take even that away from them? Don’t you think that would be cruel, to take even the illusion of intimacy from those who might never know it? Easy for you to condemn, who will never understand what it’s like to go without. It’s like condemning starving people in third world countries for stooping to handouts from more prosperous nations, rather than making their own food – it’s easy to say that, with food in your belly. It never fails to amaze me the inability of most people to simply put themselves in someone else’s shoes, even for a moment. Is there really such a lack of imagination in the world?

    Most often I find that it is women who are against porn far more than men, because they do not and can never understand what it’s like to be completely denied that intimacy, whether for a day or for life.

    As for veggie porn…well, it’s not my thing, but to each their own : – ) In truth, there is a lot of ugliness out there in the porn world, unfortunately, especially in regards to demeaning women. But not all of it is ugly and demeaning. It’s always tempting to generalize about something you don’t know much about, and equally unwise. And you might be very surprised at who views porn. If you think it’s ugly, then no one you know who is into it will ever tell you. Just so you know. Fair warning.

    So, probably not the answer you were looking for, but that’s my two cents (more like $20 worth – I didn’t mean for this post to be so long). Hope it at least somewhat illuminates your understanding. And if not, well…you are fortunate in that you don’t have to understand anyway…

  2. 2 solelyshe September 30, 2006 at 12:57 am

    I think you covered that well =). I loved your reply cause it’s an explanation of logic and truth so it’s exaclty the answer I was looking for =). I understand completely the part of how it is for men who hasn’t got the game right, I do understand their point of view more with your explanation. It’s just that from my view, as a woman maybe or perhaps only myself, so much porn becomes a little too much. So, what happens because it’s just too much is that I have to distance myself from being a part of it/men like that. It is for myself cause I can’t deal with it. That much porn becomes gross, to me. But I do understand and I feel bad for any person who’s not having intimacy in their life, it IS an important part of life. And yes, true, I learned a long time ago that it’s the more shy men than the obnoxious in your face ones that is really something to go for if any, cause the ones with game are ofc hard to tame and not as easy to be able to trust since they know how to get it and they do. It’s not that I have a problem with porn, simply the amount some consume. And yes I have in past experienced people holding back things from me because it’s something that I don’t like, so I know. Thank you so much for your long answer that I find quite usefull!

  3. 3 ukmortgagez October 2, 2006 at 6:23 am

    Ok I would like to add something about the internet here.

    On the internet you get three types of people.

    – Porn addicts.
    – Normal people looking for a product service holiday etc.
    – Internet marketing people.

    The internet is made up of 90% porn addicts.
    9% of the rest of the people use the internet for a real service.
    1% are the internet marketing people who are filling the internet with rubish.

    But when you look at who actually builds the internet the relationship is quite the inverse.

    90% of the internet is made by the marketing people spamming it to hell and gone.
    9% is made by the normal people with blogs and myspace.
    1% is the rubbish the porn addicts have to submit to get more porn.

    Let me know what you think?

  4. 4 solelyshe October 2, 2006 at 11:46 am

    Great information, it seems accurate.

  5. 5 dace October 3, 2006 at 3:06 am

    There does seem to be a growing attitude in western societies that porn is an acceptable sexual avenue for exploration and one that is without victims (where it does not involve coercian or children). I wonder if this is true, however, since I am not sure where it actually comes from or the lives and motivations of those who star in it. Three things might make me question my ethical behaviour in using pornography:
    1. Does the industry prey on the already dispossessed and reinforce their sense of worthlessness (e.g. from a history of childhood abuse) and subsequent destructive behaviours e.g. drug abuse?
    2. Does porn create images of women that damage men’s already fragile view of them as human beings?
    3. Does my engagement with pornography support organisd crime and, therefore, other crime as well?
    Have I ever accessed pronography? Absolutely. Do I find this behaviour questionable? Often.

  6. 6 solelyshe October 3, 2006 at 11:56 am

    Glad someone else is sharing my knowledge. All of your suspicions are correct.

  7. 7 dreamnepal October 9, 2006 at 4:52 pm

    Hehehe…
    Think of yourself blogger fren Solelyshe….

    Have you ever tried any tactics mentioned in the first response?..your site isn’t boring girl…good job..

  8. 8 solelyshe October 9, 2006 at 6:26 pm

    I’m not sure I know what you mean with: Tried any tactics mentioned in the first response?

  9. 9 Weight Loss Help October 18, 2006 at 6:59 pm

    Got here through health search on google. Good blog.


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