09 | October | 2006 | SOLELY SHE

Words that are worth the time it takes to read. There is a lot to learn from these words of wisdom. Take it with you, share it, spread these words.

(Any typos in these texts are not mine, texts are simply copied and pasted)

Props to whoever wrote this! MAD LUV! You have changed my life! I am forever greatfull.

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u should never base ur happiness on a person or thing it should be found with then ur self worth understandin ur needs and wants and desires are one thing.but to truely know happiness u have to know urself self is not something ready-made,but something in continous formation through choice of action sometimes in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who Love us.We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns.Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you more.The best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow but never too far to feel the love deep with in your being.To let go of someone doesnt mean you have to stop loving them,it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back.Letting go is not just setting the other person free,but it is also setting yourself free from all the bitterness,hatred,and anger that you keep in your heart.Do Not let the bitterness scare away your strength and weaken your faith,and never allow your pain to disearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.you may find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return.But be careful for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. we can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today. There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find outselves getting so intensely attracted to that person.This feeling soon becomes a partof our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for you than just a friendship.We start out desperate attemt to get noticed and be closer but in the end out efforts are still unearrned and we end up bring sorry for ourselves. you dont have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. You would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving. Dont let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lost someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow if you lose love that doesnt mean you failed in love. Cry if yo have to, just make sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and Love will find its way back to you.nothing else should matter if u love someone. dont let the bad outweigh the good. yes problems are inevidable but if we overcome it. our relationship will just grow stronger. if a friendship naturally evolves into something much more. then keep it strong. sometimes fear overcomes our decisions. thats when regrets follow. if u trusted the person eversince youve met. and they still show you that they could be trusted. then theres something special about that person. keep them close. because its soo hard to find the perfect person that compromises who you are.

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There comes a time in every womans life
when she has to take a close look at herself.
Not at her circumstanace not at what she did,
not how unfair life is or not at whom made you do it.
She just has to look at herself in all her
GLORY and IMPERFECTIONS…

For many women this is a scary thing because often
times they dont want to know the truth about
themselves. Virtuous women know what I mean….

As women, we have a tendency to water one
another down maybe it makes us feel good or look better
than the next woman. Or maybe we just dont know how
to tell that woman we ADMIRE her….In reality we
need to look at ourselves and the pain we project towards
other women.

Have you ever admired a woman who has been through
CHANGES in her life? Or have you made up
your mind that she is just messed up? Before you
make this mistake, take a closer look. A woman who
has endured the most unusual life is someone of
WISDOM Someone who has been choosen by
GOD to go through things that have made
her stronger.

Have you ever wondered why some women
arent approachable? Or have you made up
your mind that she is just mean? A quiet woman
is a smart woman. She is valuable.

Have you ever wondered about that woman who
appears to have everything, yet is still unhappy?
Well she doesnt have everything.
She doesnt have personal VALIDATION
This is something that cant be bought. This is something
developed over many mistakes and challenges that
have taught lessons of the unbearable.

So let it go and just love you and your own circumstances…….

The prettiest girl in the world can
have hell up in her heart….

What more can I say but we,
as women want a man to respect us
BUT WE CANT EVEN RESPECT
each other.!!

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These are things I love to read. If anyone have great wise words such as these please submit them with a comment! 🙂

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